Just like you may have some reservations about dating over the Internet with somebody so far away, your Russian woman likely has some fears about you, as well!
The stereotypes about “mail-order brides” run rampant in Western society – many people assume that any woman who is looking abroad for love is a gold-digger who is only interested in your passport and your money. You might be surprised to learn that there are similar rumors circling about men who are looking to Russia, the Ukraine, and Eastern Europe to find brides: that they’re sexually unfit, unemployed, or downright disturbed. Just as in Western countries you always hear about “mail-order bride scams,” in Russia and Eastern Europe you hear about women marrying men and going abroad to face abuse and mistreatment. Bad news sells everywhere!
Make sure you’re aware of the potential fears your Russian woman may have. Don’t just tell her you have a “sense of humor” – use it! Make her laugh! Remember a popular Russian proverb – he who speaks the most, does the least. Show her that you are honest and interested in marriage. Russian women are not on these sites to have a casual fling – they’re looking for marriage and starting a stable life together!
If you’re interested in keeping your Ukrainian or Russian woman and looking forward to having her as your bride, show her so. Don’t just tell her. She won’t leave her family and friends to go to a strange country if she isn’t sure about you – so prove to her that you are her Dream Man, and she will be yours!
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