When meeting Russian women online, it’s often tempting to “smooth out the creases” a bit. After all, if you’re interacting through the Internet, it’s a lot easier to sneak in a little white lie here or there, since you’re not speaking to each other face-to-face. It’s appealing to make yourself seem a little smoother, a little more polished since you have the opportunity to do so.
Here’s some good advice: don’t do this! Remember that if you’re truly looking into Russian women for marriage, she’s going to be living with you at some point and will figure out the truth anyway. (Women have an inconvenient habit of figuring out the truth at some point. It’s foolproof.) You’re both going to have to live with the realities of each other, not the Internet-improved fakes.
This doesn’t mean that you can’t flirt or be a little fanciful during your courtship. In fact, Russian women are looking for this! However, it does mean that you do need to tell the truth, even if you don’t want to get deep into the nitty gritty of the truth. If she asks you why you were divorced and the answer is that you or your partner cheated, you may want to address this in a roundabout way. Like, “It got to the point where my wife and I could not live with each other any longer, so we moved apart.”
This addresses the question yet doesn’t get too deep into the details. When your relationship with your Russian woman becomes more intimate, you’ll be able to get more and more in-depth. So don’t frighten her away with the ugly truth on the first mail correspondence – but don’t lie, either! A truly beautiful woman will love you just the way you are with all of your baggage and bad sides – let her do it!
Related posts:
