We’ve all heard the story before – “it’s too good to be true.” Oftentimes, getting involved with a Russian or Ukrainian woman may appear to be this good after you start looking at all of the details. After all, you’ve found this beautiful, unattached, brilliant woman who is, for some reason, willing to leave her family, friends, and homeland behind to go to an unknown place to start a life with you.
Pretty Yekaterina from the Ukraine, City: Nikolaev Age: 22
Or maybe your friends and family are starting to throw little warnings at you, telling you that she’s only in it for the money or the passport. The only people who say such things are those who are uninitiated to Russian culture – they don’t understand how important a husband and a family are to Russian women!
Russian women are raised to believe that her success is defined through her ability to meet a good husband, create a home, and raise children. The best way to understand this is to compare it to the Western idea of “success” – namely, to hold a lucrative job of high importance. Imagine how you would feel if you had no job while all of your classmates and friends were doing well in their careers. You’d feel unsuccessful and unhappy. This is how a Russian woman feels if she is unmarried! Even worse, the statistics are against her: there are roughly 88 men for every 100 Russian women.
26 Year old Ulya is an Enlish teacher
With numbers like these, many Russian women feel that they are doomed to be “unsuccessful” women. They will either be unable to marry a man or will have to settle for somebody who may not be a good match for her. This is why so many Russian woman start to look for love through dating services! It is not because they are lusting after your passport – it is because they want a husband and a family so much that they are willing to move out of the country to get it.
So don’t question your Russian woman’s intentions – chances are, she really likes you and would be excited to start a family with you even if you didn’t have the Western passport!
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